7 Ways “Being Chill” Quietly Became a Personality Defense Mechanism

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It Becomes Automatic After Years of Practice

It Builds a Reputation as the “Easy” Person

It Hides Hurt Behind a Calm Face

It Keeps Expectations Super Low

It Lets You Avoid Deep Conversations

It Makes Vulnerability Feel Unnecessary

It Turns Conflict Into Something You Float Above

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